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Make Incredible Things Happen!

I am very fortunate to have so many talented and confident women in my life. Instead of being envious and jealous, I celebrate and admire them (plus, this view makes your life so much happier). We accept our differences; and offer support when our views and decisions are unpopular. We value the meaning of “friendship” and don’t push each other away. And there’s trust, for which true friendship is built upon.

Sometimes I feel that I am living in a Bravo “housewives” series. I am sure that many of my readers feel the same. I no longer care if I am not invited to a party or left out of other social circles. Life is too short and I would rather have quality friendships than quantity. And, when did women start hating other women? Or is this something that began with the world and will haunt us from junior high to the grave. Note: I am not perfect and have my faults. But maybe maturity has finally settled in and these situations exhaust me.

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The quote above has so much meaning. I feel that women are our own worst enemies. We can conquer anything if we would be kind and not bitchy. We need to offer encouragement, not put each other down. And the worst, (I am guilty of this too!) gossiping behind each other backs. Because guess what? We all find out what is said.

So here’s your goal: Congratulate  another woman on an achievement or support a friend who is having a difficult time. This kind of positivity will  make a difference and possibly make incredible things happen!

My Top 5 Favorite 2015 Fall Fashion Trends

It’s that time of year again, cooling temperatures, college football and the Starbucks Pumpkin Spiced Latte. That’s right, it’s time for fall fashion! And this year, the 1970’s have inspired all the latest trends.

Here are my Top 5 Favorite 2015 Fall Fashion Trends:

1. The color Brown: Designers are inspired by the 1970’s…so brown is the color palette of choice. However, liven up this color by adding reds, golds and creams.

The faux suede skirt – H&M $34.99

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2. Flare: The 70’s are inspiring jeans by adding some flare. The flare style are the most flattering for women by showing off your curves and lengthening  your legs. Add a pair of heels and  you are good to go day or night. I just bought the pair below; and I have never been so proud of my behind.

1969 Authentic Flare – Gap $69

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3. Plaid

Remember the 70’s runway models with plaid jumpers and knee-high boots, well it’s now your reality. But I am more into plaid because of Starz show “Outlander”…hmm Jamie Fraser! Plus, add a turtleneck (another hot fall trend) to this jumper and you have another look.

Too Much Fun Dress in Tartan – Modcloth.com $99

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4. Winter Florals

This trend was surfacing last year and it’s officially here to stay. I wore this look last year pairing my winter floral skirt (Gap) with a black/white sweater (contrast), black tights and suede tied heels.

Currently: Pleated Floral Print Skirt – Gap $59

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5. Military

Camo has been in style for quite a while…and continues into this fall. I am in love with the entire look!

Camo Sweatshirt – Banana Republic $69

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And those are my top picks for fall. Get shopping and enjoy how fabulous you will look!

Happy Shopping!

 

30A Is The Place To Stay!…….Beach Photos

One last 30A post! To remember this vacation, we had family photos taken on Rosemary Beach. The sunset and beach created the most breathtaking scenery; and a wonderful photographer and friend captured these beautiful moments for us.

If you are staying in the Florida Panhandle or South Alabama area, I highly recommend Micha Everett Photography for the most beautiful photos (family, engagement, wedding, etc.). Micha is an amazing and outgoing woman with tons of talent. Our photo session was a blast!

Here is a preview:

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I can’t wait to see the rest…..there were so many great poses and fun ideas! Visit Micha Everett Photography on Facebook too! Micha, you are wonderful and next time drinks are on me!

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I wish you all happy vacations!

 

 

 

30A Is The Place To Stay! Part III (Recreation)

30A (and the Destin area) is filled with so many fun-family activities. There’s never a boring moment, even when relaxing at the beach.

Beaches
-Water rentals: Each beach has paddle boarding and boat rentals (2-hour rental minimum).

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-Relaxing: Most beaches offer rental chairs and umbrellas (rent by the day or week).

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-Bring your own fun: Cornhole, Wiffle Ball, Boogie Boards, Rafting, Snorkeling

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Transportation
Along 30A, everyone either brings or rents bikes.

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Shopping
-Farmers’ Market (Every Sunday from 10am – 1pm at Rosemary Beach…and some Thursdays too)

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-Each 30A beach has it’s own shopping district (very high-end).

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-Seafood Markets (Goatfeathers)

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Kid Fun
-30A beaches will have afternoon children’s activities during the week. They also have evening camps posted too!

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Nightlife
Each 30A beach has free outdoor movies/concerts and firework displays.

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Destin
While we were in Destin, we enjoyed the Buccaneer Pirate Cruise for our lil buc.

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We also enjoyed more shopping and two restaurants.

Shopping:
Silver Sands Premium Outlets
Destin Commons
Grand Boulevard

And a shopping trip to Destin would not be complete without a visit to Alvin’s Island for souvenirs.

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Eats:

To celebrate our 10 year wedding anniversary, Mr. Modhousewife and I enjoyed a wonderful meal at Beach Walk Cafe. The food and the ocean view were incredible. I highly recommend this restaurant for a romantic getaway.

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And finally we enjoyed a great lunch at a well-known Destin establishment, Hog’s Breath.

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We really enjoyed 30A and Destin; and I believe your family would love this beautiful area of Florida too!

Happy Vacation!

30A Is The Place To Stay!

My family just returned from a wonderful vacation; and stayed along the Florida Emerald Coast area most commonly referred to as 30A. Scenic Highway 30A is 30 miles of white sand beaches along the Gulf of Mexico coastline in Northwest Florida’s Walton County.

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Throughout this week, I will be blogging about the lodging, recreation and eateries on 30A (including a few Destin locations too). Today, I am writing on accommodations.

We stayed on the boarder of Seacrest/Rosemary Beaches in a rental housing community called, “The Water’s Edge at Seacrest Beach”. This area is filled with condos and houses that can accommodate small to even the largest families.

We stayed in this rental houseand my favorite amenities included the full kitchen, large bedrooms, easy beach access and private pool. Plus, the house came with beach rental chairs and umbrella.

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For other rental properties to review click here.

We were so happy with this location and housing that we plan to visit many more times in the future.

Loving Florida!

To My Future SIL…..Words of Wisdom

1890636_10102055835491150_850088122_oI am happy to announce that next spring, I am finally getting a little sister. My brother proposed to the most wonderful woman, Rachel, and we can’t wait to welcome her into our crazy family.

Rachel is the founder of An Eventful Life. Her new blog feature is Wedding Wednesdays. She is looking for “words of wisdom from a Mrs. to a future Mrs.”. So, my neighborhood moms group came together to offer advice and display our wedding photos.

 

 

Modhousewife – June 5, 2004 

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Wedding Advice: The week of the wedding, have a date night. Relax, eat some good food and DON’T talk about the wedding.

Marriage Advice: Always have date nights to reconnect has a couple….leave work and kids at the door. Plus, add an element of surprise;)

 

 

 

Jenni – August 6, 2005

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Wedding Advice: Delegate!! And officially let go of anxieties and expectations the day before. What will be will be, and you want to remember all the fun and laughter that filled your day, even if the cake implodes! You don’t want to look back and think, “gosh, that was a very stressful day!!”

Marriage Advice: Let’s go with… Love is dynamic … The love you feel today will be different from the love feel 5, 10, 15 years from now. That’s ok! You choose to continue falling in love with the same person over and over as you grow and build a life together! Also, if you have kids, let dad be on bath and bedtime duty from the beginning. An awesome way for him to bond and build special rituals with your child(ren) and a nice nightly break for you!

Tricia – May 26, 2001

1622395_10202206520659077_1022624579_oMarriage Advice: Don’t do anything the first year of marriage that you don’t want to continue the rest of your marriage. Don’t set unrealistic expectations from the beginning.

 

 

 

 

 

Stacy – July 30, 2005
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Marriage Advice: Get a king size bed!

 

 

 

 

 

Jen – September 30, 2000

1794663_10203197503999791_243553310_nWedding Advice: DO NOT diet/take diet pills or supplements or do anything that will make you drastically lose weight the couple months before your wedding. Even with all the dress fittings, your weight is not consistent, partially due to stress. Combine the two & when it’s go-time and the dress does not fit you. The most important dress of your life is too big, you will regret it forever.

Also, your wedding day will go by in the blink of an eye. For all the months of preparation, it’s all over in a matter of hours. Tell yourself to mentally capture each moment like watching your sisters walk up the aisle instead of fussing with yourself before your big moment. Enjoy & actually LIVE the day because there’s not much you can change on the wedding day itself – if something is going to be a wreck that’s just going to happen anyway. It’s you & your hub’s day no matter what the flowers end up looking like.

Marriage Advice: Embrace each others’ differences. It actually took me a while to really understand that my dear husband (let’s call him DH) simply does not need nor want to surround himself with friends & people out all the time, like I am inclined to do. Conversely, he didn’t get why I wanted to go somewhere with ‘other people’ every weekend. The old marriage advice stands: do not think you can change your spouse once you are married. When I finally got that about DH, we both looked for ways to compromise so we both felt like our needs were met.

Diana – May 15, 2009

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Marriage Advice: And to use that advice and carry it through, never stop having fun!!!!

 

 

 

 

Michelle – June 15, 2002

1596660_10203049781308049_1760567869_oWedding Advice: Hire the best photographer to capture the candid moments. The day will go so fast. Take a moment to sit back and take it all in. Watch your guest enjoying themselves and dance the night away.

Marriage Advice: Keep date nights and don’t go to bed angry (that advice was given to us by a couple married 55 yrs). So true.

 

 

 

Kat – September 20, 1997

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Marriage Advice: Ask yourself, “Is it better to be right or be loved?” I’d like to add the caveat that it’s even better to be funny!

 

 

 

 

Jacinta – December 31, 2002

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Marriage advice: Get in the habit of giving each other compliments. I think men need them just as much as women; and we all need a cheerleader in life, be that person to your husband. Also, always say “I love you.” Three simple words, but a great habit! We say it before bed, before leaving the house, when we get off the phone, and now our kids say it too. It always adds perspective when you are angry or sad and hear those words.

Shelly – January 28, 2007

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Wedding Advice: Relax, enjoy every moment, and be okay if everything does not go quite as planned. 
Marriage Advice: Always remember that love is more than a feeling. Love is a verb and requires action. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Brett & Rachel,

I hope you both have fun reading all the wedding and marriage advice. Enjoy your engagement and the whole family is looking forward to the big day!

Love Your Big Sister